“The first step toward success is taken when you refuse to be a captive of the environment in which you first find yourself.” Mark Caine
Have you ever felt like things are just not working out the way you would like, or that you are just not in the right place – you know it. If you really listen to the information your body is broadcasting you can see that you are not comfortable doing what you’re doing, you’re looking longingly at something else you want to do and it doesn’t feel good in your body to get up each day and do something you are not enjoying. Sure in every job there are tasks that are not the most exciting thing to do in the world but overall we feel on purpose or “on fire,” as some would say. With local elections coming up I have just been reading the thoughts of the 2 ODT reporters who sit in on the Council meetings. It was interesting to see one of them comment about a present councillor, “…so the question has to be asked: Why is he bothering?” Sometimes we could ask that of a lot of people around us, who we can see are not getting a lot out of life, but could others ask that about you?
Why are you bothering to get out of bed each morning and doing what you are doing? Do you feel like you are the hamster on the wheel going through the motions even though you are very aware of a vision that feels so much more empowering to you? Have you sat down and examined where you would like the direction of your life to head? This would be a great start. Sometimes we have had it so strongly ingrained in us that we are to do a certain thing with our life, that we haven’t allowed ourselves the ‘luxury’ of dreaming of a different life. But, I hear you say I can’t do that because….. Life is full of choices and if you want to listen to that voice and stay where you are, that is your choice and unless I’m living with you that’s not really going to reflect a lot on my life. But if you were to fast forward to your deathbed and look back at your life are you going to feel YEEAH I did everything I set out to do? Only you can answer that. If the answer is, “No,” do you think your life is going to feel successful? So what steps can you take today towards that dream of success on your terms.
Enjoy feeling successful!
“Like water, which can clearly mirror the sky and the trees only so long as its surface is undisturbed, the mind can only reflect the true image of the Self when it is tranquil and wholly relaxed.” Indra Devi
I don’t know of anyone who hasn’t had times when they are feeling disturbed or upset. When we are in the midst of it we can find it difficult to concentrate on what is going on around us at work or in our home life. It can be difficult to see our way through when things are not going the way we had planned. The Institute of Heart Math has done research showing that Heart rhythms are very reflective of inner emotional states and stress. As you can see in today’s image when we are frustrated, angry or otherwise feeling a ‘negative’ emotion, the result is disorder in the heart’s rhythms and this is also true in the autonomic nervous system – the nervous system that controls the automatic functions in our bodies. This adversely affects the rest of the body, leading to inefficiency and increased stress on the heart and other organs.
In contrast, as you can see on the bottom half of the image, positive emotions create increased harmony and what is called coherence in the heart rhythms. When the heart’s communication is clear and ordered, this coherence helps all our systems to be synchronized and working together harmoniously. Coherence is a high performance state where less energy is being wasted and we become very aware. This is the sort of state we are in when meditating or just sitting quietly focusing on our breathing. Feeling emotions like appreciation, compassion or love still the disorder, affecting the hormonal, immune and nervous systems in a good way, making them more efficient and less stressful to the body. Coherent heart rhythms help facilitate the brain to think more clearly, make better decisions and communicate better. Coherence helps the brain in creativity and innovative problem solving.
If you are experiencing a rough patch, hold on to your vision of how you would like to see your life unfolding, focus on the breath as it goes in and out of the body and imagine that undisturbed surface of the water reflecting that vision back to you and possibly a solution to your problem, because your heart is able to synchronize all your systems and create coherence.
“I am who I am today because of the choice I made yesterday.” Eleanor Roosevelt
I know that the Law of Attraction stuff, the Quantum Physics stuff or the metaphysical stuff is all a bit woo woo for some. However the work coming from the energetic back ground is showing us again and again that we can co-create our future with the thoughts we had yesterday as Eleanor Roosevelt is saying, or today, going forward. Those thoughts can be reactionary to what is going on around us and so not a conscious decision or choice, but a choice none-the-less. We can choose not to act in that reactionary way and think or feel into another way of responding to the situation. That is definitely a possibility, and takes some work to be mindful to the response we want to make in the moment. If I’m being triggered by some old memories or beliefs I may respond in an old way that I really didn’t intend and create a situation that I’m not happy about.
Each one of those choices and creations that I have made up to the present moment produced ‘the me,’ I am right now. Those experiences are all stored in the part of the brain which is more of a subconscious activity so I’m not aware of where that choice came from. This makes it hard to change, if we can’t see the thought that created the action in the first place. This is where noticing throughout the day what we are feeling is the key to unlocking that particular door. If you are not feeling good then what you are thinking is at the root of that feeling. If you want to change it, you need to choose a thought that helps you to feel good, which then causes you to act in a different way, so that tomorrow, and tomorrow, and tomorrow, continue to create a different you, a you that has been chosen. Sound easy? Have a try!
Enjoy changing your feelings by changing your thoughts every day, and see where you get to!!